Injuries Women Are Most Likely To Ignore
By Amanda K. Dobies, Esq.
Many of the women I meet do not ignore their injuries because they do not care. They ignored their pain because they were busy. They were caring for children, managing households, showing up for work, and holding everything together. Pain became something to manage quietly, something to work around, and something to push through.
Often, the discomfort starts small. A stiff neck after a car accident. A sore back after a fall at work. A lingering headache that shows up at the end of the day. At first, the pain feels manageable. Life demands attention, and the injury feels like something that can wait.
Over time, those “minor” symptoms can become harder to ignore. Pain lingers longer than expected. Sleep becomes difficult. Energy drops. Simple tasks start to feel heavier. What once felt like an inconvenience begins to interfere with daily life. By the time medical care is sought, the injury may be more complicated to treat than it would have been early on.
Certain injuries are especially likely to be minimized by women.
Neck and back soft tissue injuries
Because these traumas do not always show up on imaging, the injuries are easy to dismiss, both by patients and sometimes by providers.
Repetitive stress injuries
Stress injuries to areas like shoulders, wrists, and elbows are another category that women often work through rather than treat, especially in jobs that require constant motion.
Post-concussion symptoms
These include headaches, light sensitivity, and difficulty concentrating, are also frequently downplayed, particularly when there was no loss of consciousness during the accident.
Pelvic and hip injuries
Women are often hesitant to raise these symptoms at all, even when they are affecting mobility or comfort. Instead of seeking care, many simply adjust and move on.
We, as women are conditioned to tolerate discomfort and to prioritize the needs of others. We worry about being perceived as overreacting. Many of us do not have the time or flexibility to add medical appointments to an already full schedule. For some of us, prior experiences of having pain complaints dismissed and not being taken seriously make it easier to stay quiet.
Ignoring an injury does not make it go away. In many cases, it allows the body to compensate in ways that create new problems. A sore neck leads to headaches. An altered gait leads to hip or back pain. What could have been addressed early becomes a longer and more frustrating recovery.
When treatment is postponed, it can become harder to connect symptoms back to the original injury. Recovery may take longer. Treatment options may become more limited. The window to fully address the injury, medically and practically, can narrow.
Paying attention to an injury does not require alarm or dramatics. It means noticing patterns. It means following up when pain lingers longer than expected. It means mentioning symptoms even when they feel inconvenient or uncomfortable to discuss. It means allowing yourself to be evaluated, even if you are still functioning.
The goal is not to treat every ache as an emergency. The goal is to recognize when the body is asking for attention and to respond before a small problem becomes a larger one. Taking your symptoms seriously is not a sign of weakness. It is an investment in your health, your stability, and your ability to keep showing up for the life you are already carrying.
Delaying treatment can also have consequences beyond your health. In a personal injury claim, timing matters. When there is a long gap between an accident and medical care, insurance companies often question whether the injury was serious or whether it was caused by something else. Even when pain is very real, delayed treatment can make it harder to connect symptoms back to the original incident. Seeking care early and following through consistently helps protect not only your recovery, but your ability to be fully compensated if someone else’s negligence caused your injury.
If you have been injured in an auto or work accident and have questions, contact one of our experienced attorneys at 302-565-6100, for a free consultation to learn how we can support your needs.
Bio
Amanda K. Dobies is a committed personal injury attorney with a decade of experience, proudly representing injured victims at Kimmel, Carter, Roman, Peltz & O’Neill, P.A. She focuses her practice on motor vehicle collisions, work-related injuries, slip and falls, and dog bites. Amanda is dedicated to assisting injured individuals navigate the legal process with clarity and confidence.
A lifelong Delawarean, Amanda earned her undergraduate degrees in Criminal Justice and Spanish from the University of Delaware and her law degree from Delaware Law School, where she graduated cum laude.
Before joining Kimmel Carter, Amanda served as in-house staff counsel for one of the nation’s top insurance companies, representing insureds throughout litigation. This insider perspective gives her a distinct advantage when advocating for her clients, having spent years negotiating and litigating from the insurance side.
Since transitioning from defense work to representing injured victims, Amanda has been a strong and effective advocate for her clients. She has earned several prestigious industry recognitions, including being named to Delaware Super Lawyers: Rising Stars for the past four years—an honor awarded to the top 2.5% of legal talent nationwide under age 40. She is also consistently recognized by Best Lawyers: Ones to Watch™ and Delaware Today’s “Top Lawyers.”
Amanda is professionally involved with the American Association for Justice (AAJ), the Delaware Trial Lawyers Association (DTLA), the Delaware State Bar Association (DSBA), and the Randy J. Holland Delaware Workers’ Compensation Inn of Court. She also provides pro bono assistance in Family Court, supporting victims of domestic violence with custodial and related legal matters.
When she’s not practicing law, Amanda loves being with her husband, their two children, and their energetic crew of dogs. She’s an avid Philly sports fan who enjoys reading and staying active in her spare time.
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